Hi everyone,

I started this page because I have a lot to say. People always come to me for help because I am a good listener. I don’t like people getting taking advantage of. I don’t like men who make compliments to women they don’t mean.

I am one of the fortunate women who married a wonderful man. He’s not perfect he has many faults just as I do. One thing I know he loves me and I love him.

I always knew he loved me but wasn’t sure how much he loved me. It’s kind of sad and sick at the same time to feel like your husband married you because you are motherly. I felt like I was a mother of 4 boys not three.

That all changed one day! I was turning 40 feeling old and unappreciated. I said to my husband “It would be nice to celebrate my 40th with all my friends and family. “Well my birthday came around and he took me to dinner with our boys. I was a little disappointed but then at the same time relieved. My boys were all grown up and we very rarely spent time as a family anymore.I realized  I didn’t need the big celebration anymore just my boys and their dad.

A few days later a friend of mine called me to go to a fundraiser with her and I said sure. It was a wine tasting and I don’t drink wine, but it was for charity so I went.

She took me to this function hall down the street.I walked in and heard SURPRISE!!! The function hall was  filled with over a hundred friend and family members to celebrate my birthday. It was so much fun everyone had a great time.That was the day that I realized my husband loved me and appreciated me as a friend  a mother and a wife. Imagine how much time, effort and love it took to pull it off. All I can say is everyone deserves to feel that loved .

Birthdays are fun . They are even better when someone you love plans a surprise party